[P1] OT: Setting up Public Wi-Fi
Harry D. Corsover
harry at corsazzi.com
Mon Mar 15 11:34:52 PST 2004
On Mar 15, 2004, at 3:23 AM, gwallace wrote:
> When I say "I choose to believe" I am consciously aware that this is
> an ambiguous situation, so I contend it is not rationalization. That
> would require that I believe I am right and keep my doubts buried
> somewhere in my subconscious. (But then I suppose some would say I'm
> rationalizing again). After reading the various opinions posted here
> and talking to others here in the real world, I've made a decision for
> my own situation. Others must do the same for theirs. Thanks for such
> an interesting discussion.
I just heard an interesting definition of rationalization (and one that
does not require anything to be buried deep in the unconscious). I'll
paraphrase here, since I don't have the source at hand. First, the
person defined "rationalize" as rational lies. In context,
rationalizing is the use of logical "lies" that we tell ourselves to
justify an emotionally-based decision. So, to rephrase, first we make a
decision based on emotion, then we come up with rational-sounding
"reasons" to back up our decision. This is a very basic concept in
sales. Appeal to emotion, and help the person rationalize their buying
decision.
Regards,
Harry Corsover
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