On 11/27/05 12:58 PM, "Mikael Byström" <mikael.bystrom at punkass.com> wrote: > In > the case of my expressed views to Shawn offlist, on letting a then > resolved somewhat negative discussion fade out (see end of msg), was > taken by him as me trying to dictate what he should not do. It was meant > to be a suggestion Then it should have been better worded. > and as expressing my view on the matter to him > personally, because to me it only concerned him, but for whatever reason > he refused to see it that way. Yes, I did. Because I was being told not to respond to some comment on the list. Seems ridiculous in context of what you wrote, doesn't it? > I think Shawn is *right* that I can't demand from him that he behaves > according to widespread and accepted netiquette, LOL As defined by who? "List Rules" circumvent your imagined "netiquette". > but I do have every > right to expect that he or anyone else does Wait...you feel you have a "right" to expect me to behave according to your rules? Good luck with that. > and in addition I have every > right to express my belief that he should, also to his mailbox (until he > lets me know he wouldn't want that anymore). Wha....? You think you have a "right" to send email to me unrequested? You have a right to send me an email scolding me on my behavior? And why do I have to "let you know" that I don't want email from you directly? Why would you assume I did want email from you? Your explanation is exactly the same excuse spammers use to send the volumes of mail we all get. "Well, they didn't ask me *not* to send them email...." If you send email to a complete stranger, don't be surprised what that stranger does with it. People assume email is private - it's not. It's one of the most public things we do on the Net. > I also think Shawn is *wrong* when he says that his impression that he > had somehow been violated, by my freely expressed opinion to him, give > him an undeniable right to do with it what he wants. He could have just > expressed himself right back to me. Ah...so you can choose the method in which you communicate to me but I don't have the same "right"? Can you hear the hypocrisy in what you are saying? > E X T R A E X T R A V I O L A T A T I O N O F F R E E S P E E C H: LOL Again, you have no right to free speech on a mailing list. You can keep screaming it from the rooftops if you'd like but it doesn't make it so. > Here's my alleged "attack", sent in private, on Shawns right to freely > express himself anywhere: >> This have been and gone and further comments at this point are quite > unnecessary. > > Wow! I can really see how Shawns rights to free speech were diminished by > my outrageous comment that truly undermined his (perceived) authority. LOL I have no authority on this list. You credit me with more influence than I have. -- Shawn King Host/Executive Producer Your Mac Life http://www.yourmaclife.com