Firewall on ibook needs to be open... System Preferences - Sharing - Firewall tab ... Check Remote Login- SSH and click start. On Dec 7, 2005, at 6:16 PM, SeaSoft Systems wrote: > I am trying to SSH into a remote computer for the first time > (specifically my computer-phobic aunt's new iBook in another state; > I'm on a 10.3.8 machine) > > I got her to read me her DHCP-assigned IP over the phone, and to > turn on remote login in her system/sharing prefs. Had her reboot > her system & then reconfirm remote login to be sure it took. > > So far, I haven't been able to ssh into her computer (ssh says port > 22 connection refused). It may be I don't know what I am doing > here, but I've read the ssh manpage & think I'm doing it correctly. > I'm just typing, in a bash terminal window: > > ssh username at xxx.xxx.xxx.xxx > > where I am using the correct username (I've tried both long and > short user names here) and IP number. > > I expected to be prompted for her admin password, but so far the > connection is refused before that can happen. > > > Diagnostics: > > - I can ping her ip (avg round trip around 80 ms) > > - The OS X firewall on the remote computer is disabled > > - There is no other firewall on the remote computer > > - I called tech support to see if they were blocking any ports at > the server; they claim not. > > - I have the correct user name, short user name, and password > (which I assigned on a Thanksgiving visit to her house). > > I'm looking for ideas on what to try next... > > > Richard > _______________________________________________ > X-Unix mailing list > X-Unix at listserver.themacintoshguy.com > http://listserver.themacintoshguy.com/mailman/listinfo/x-unix > > Listmom is trying to clean out his closets! Vintage Mac and random > stuff: > http://search.ebay.com/_W0QQsassZmacguy1984