>From: Ted <tlanden at mac.com> > >Firewall on ibook needs to be open... > >System Preferences - Sharing - Firewall tab ... Check Remote Login- >SSH and click start. > > Thanks Ted, but that didn't help. I've now tried it both ways (ibook firewall on *and* off) with the same result ("connect to host xxx.xxx.xxx.xxx port 22: Connection refused") As an aside: What you say is a little counterintuitive to me; it would seem to imply that if the OSX ibook firewall is *off* that the system would block some ports, at the very least port 22. Is that actually the case? I would have thought that if the firewall was off that everything would get in. In any case, thanks for the suggestion. Much appreciated. Richard >On Dec 7, 2005, at 6:16 PM, SeaSoft Systems wrote: > >> I am trying to SSH into a remote computer for the first time >> (specifically my computer-phobic aunt's new iBook in another state; >> I'm on a 10.3.8 machine) >> >> I got her to read me her DHCP-assigned IP over the phone, and to >> turn on remote login in her system/sharing prefs. Had her reboot >> her system & then reconfirm remote login to be sure it took. >> >> So far, I haven't been able to ssh into her computer (ssh says port >> 22 connection refused). It may be I don't know what I am doing >> here, but I've read the ssh manpage & think I'm doing it correctly. >> I'm just typing, in a bash terminal window: >> >> ssh username at xxx.xxx.xxx.xxx >> >> where I am using the correct username (I've tried both long and >> short user names here) and IP number. >> >> I expected to be prompted for her admin password, but so far the >> connection is refused before that can happen. >> >> >> Diagnostics: >> >> - I can ping her ip (avg round trip around 80 ms) >> >> - The OS X firewall on the remote computer is disabled >> >> - There is no other firewall on the remote computer >> >> - I called tech support to see if they were blocking any ports at >> the server; they claim not. >> >> - I have the correct user name, short user name, and password >> (which I assigned on a Thanksgiving visit to her house). >> >> I'm looking for ideas on what to try next...