> My goodness Mac vets, there has to be something about this machine to > make = > you act this way ;). I have to find out what it is. Back in July 1999, a noted computer columnist, Walter Mossberg had that same problem. He had been at the MacWorld Expo in NYC when the first iMac was introduced. After he left the Expo, he wrote a column about his experiences and his puzzlement. He said that he was fascinated by the Mac user's attachment to Macs and wanted to understand what powered it. So he stood behind the row of iMacs and watched the user reactions to the computers. He saw each person approach the computer, smile when they got close, reach out to gently touch it, smile wider and get a soft glow on their faces, Then they touched the mouse and started using the computer. At that point, he saw their entire face erupt into what he called a vision of pure joy. He still couldn't figure out what generated this response and was even more puzzled. He waited until the computer bank was almost deserted and tried it himself but still not answers. All the way home, it haunted him. Why couldn't he figure it out? Was there a magic incantation or something that happened to users? When he got home and sat down at his PC to write this puzzling column about this mysterious response, he finally had a revelation. He said out of a clear blue sky, he suddenly understood what was happening to Mac people: they had a relationship with their computer. It was not a piece of machinery or a tool, it was a trusted and beloved friend. He said as he realized this, he also realized that PC people never had this type of relationship with their computers. He also realized that he never would get that kind of feeling or have that relationship with his computer and he felt a tear or two run down his cheek as he realized how sad that made him feel. Since then, he has test many new Mac products and adores the "sunflower" iMac and ipods. When you made your comments about Macs, it was the same thing as if you had called our significant others, inferior or defective. It's the old adage, I can talk about my family, my boyfriend, my husband, but don't you dare criticize that person in my presence. You "attacked" our friend, whether you intended to or not, and you got immediate backlash from it. You came to our party and criticized our guest of honor, how did you expect us to react? Had you said instead, this is my first mac and with my pc, I am used to doing............, how can I do it with a Mac? You would have had all the help and suggestions you could have ever wanted. But when you said, your mac doesn't do the things my pc does so well or better, well, as you found out, those are fighting words, you are dissing our friend at our party and you became an immediate gate crasher and ungrateful guest. Now do you begin to understand? We are not particularly interested in how many people buy and use Macs, we are more interested in how many people love and enjoy their Macs, warts and all. Just like an eccentric relative, some Macs are more lovable than others, some are a bit quirkier but eccentric relatives just as valued and loved as "normal" relatives. Sometimes, the eccentricity of a person makes them even more endearing, Well, sometimes the Mac eccentricities make us more protective of that Mac also. Macs have personalities. Sometimes they fit us like a glove, sometimes, they irritate us beyond endurance but they still enable us to feel powerful and empowered because they will always let us be more than we are without them. Some of us use Macs to keep in touch with a community if we are housebound. Some of us use Macs to earn the income we need to survive or thrive. Some of us use Macs to perform tasks we could not do without a Mac. I am not a good artist but I yearn to be. With a Mac, some simple software, some time and inspiration, I have created some really good pieces of art. I have become a bit more of who I want to be because of my Mac. I suggest you pick something you want to do that is just a bit more than you and ask your Mac to help you get there. It will be a great journey for both of you. Mac Computer Show and Sale December 13th Info at www.wap.org