On Mar 15, 2004, at 3:23 AM, gwallace wrote: > When I say "I choose to believe" I am consciously aware that this is > an ambiguous situation, so I contend it is not rationalization. That > would require that I believe I am right and keep my doubts buried > somewhere in my subconscious. (But then I suppose some would say I'm > rationalizing again). After reading the various opinions posted here > and talking to others here in the real world, I've made a decision for > my own situation. Others must do the same for theirs. Thanks for such > an interesting discussion. I just heard an interesting definition of rationalization (and one that does not require anything to be buried deep in the unconscious). I'll paraphrase here, since I don't have the source at hand. First, the person defined "rationalize" as rational lies. In context, rationalizing is the use of logical "lies" that we tell ourselves to justify an emotionally-based decision. So, to rephrase, first we make a decision based on emotion, then we come up with rational-sounding "reasons" to back up our decision. This is a very basic concept in sales. Appeal to emotion, and help the person rationalize their buying decision. Regards, Harry Corsover ======================================= Harry Corsover, Independent Business Owner CyberWize: The Home Business Solution Amazing Travel * Health * Tax Benefits <http://www.hc.cyberwize.com> <harry at corsazzi.com> * 877-507-9562 =======================================