> > I emailed Eric about this, but still got no reply. > > > > I have to say I find it extremely worrying that sur.co.uk are able to > > OPEN my email message to the list. Isn't this just an approval system - so of course it is receiving mail for the user and until you confirm that you are real and not a spammer - your mail sits on their server and doesn't get thru ? > > It sounds to me, although I am no expert, that if that is the case, > > they must have some sort of access to the list. Why ? Isn't it a mail receiving system ? Malcolm